Quotations to remember and act on during life.
“Well timed silence has more eloquence than the most grandiloquent of speeches.”
I wanted to find the author of this and came up with a page full of such quotes.
http://www.quotegarden.com/speaking.html
Notice that most of the wise quotes related to keeping quiet rather than talking.
One of the most important ones which I learned from Zeeshan ul Hassan Usmani is
If you need to raise your voice then you have already lost the argument.
This is similar to the one I learned during childhood which is :
“Talk softly but carry a large stick.”
So in Human Operating System (HOS) this translates into the code as :
Procedure dealing_with_other_humans_opposing_you ;
begin
If you are in a weak position
then shut up and try to avoid the opposition's attacks quietly ;
If you are in a strong position
then talk softly ; { Since you have a large stick }
{ if you talk loudly then you could lose even if you could have easily won in less time }
If you are in an equal or similar position then
learn when to keep quite so you can present your case better to the observers and get into a stronger position.
End ;
Hopefully by following this procedure you (the human) shall be able to get better results.
Disclaimer : This procedure is not recommended for dealing with other forms of life. The results can be unpredictable or even disastrous.